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I chose the title of this blog to go with a Beatles song from 1969. The title made sense in October of 2009 because fighting cancer might be a drawn out challenge. I take inspiration where I can, and hope to motivate with my musings about music, my status and anything else related to life. Anyone can post comments; no sign in or account is needed, just click on the comments section towards the bottom of the post and write me a note. A splendid time is guaranteed for all. Live Happy- Greg


"Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect." Mark Twain



Wednesday, November 17, 2010

" I and Love and You"

11-21-2010 Sadie in Enumclaw 2+ inches of snow!
I am posting a video from one of the best of the new bands out there. The Avett Brothers blend rock, country, blues, and their own americana into an eclectic very interesting sound. "I and Love and You" is probably about leaving a girlfriend and missing chances to start the relationship out on a better footing. I am also adding a nice forwarded e mail from my Oahu friend Valerie. It is worth a read and a forward if you are so inclined...
Yvonne, Sadie with Tree #1
I had a bone marrow aspiration done a little over a week ago and will discover the results tomorrow. I am pretty sure I am still cancer free as I am getting a little better every day with the minor complications from the transplant. My 24 year old son Andrew is flying in tomorrow with his friend Morgan, just in time to see the two Christmas trees Yvonne cut down for our house this past Sunday. I felt wimpy, she ordered me to stand aside and loaded the trees into the truck too. 


What if there isn't "anymore"?
 
  One day a woman's husband died, and on that clear, cold morning, in the warmth of their bedroom, the wife was  struck with the pain of learning that sometimes there isn't "anymore".
  No more hugs, no more special moments to celebrate together, no more phone calls just to chat, no more "just one minute."   Sometimes, what we care about the most gets all used up and goes away, never to return before we can say good-bye, say "I love you."

  So while we have it, it's best we love it, care for it, fix it when it's broken and heal it when it's sick.
  This is true for marriage.....And old cars... And children with bad report cards, and dogs with bad hips, and aging parents and grandparents. We keep them because they are worth it, because we are worth it.

  Some things we keep -- like a best friend who moved away or a sister-in-law after divorce. There are just some things that make us happy, no matter what.

  Life is important, like people we know who are special. And so, we keep them close!
 
I received this from someone who thought I was a 'keeper'! Then I put the whole message on my blog to reach as many people as possible.   Let every one of your friends know you love them. Even if you think they don't love you back. And just in case I'm gone tomorrow:
I LOVE YA!!!
Live today because tomorrow is not promised.


21 comments:

Anonymous said...

Greg, what a great group !Hope your test is fine, see you guys next week We love you too ! Dad and Alioe

Cathy Curths said...

Love your blog today. You are right for sure! My blog has been taken over by people trying to sell thier wares. Very frustrating, because these people aren't my friends or family. We ent from three to nine here, as Les's cousin and his family plus Alicia and Sean are coming, and I thought I was having a laid back quiet day! I'll make Les help me :)

Cathy Curths said...

Love the picture,too, btw! Yeah that song made me think about Les's cousin and his wife and kids that are coming over Thanksgiving. His Mom and brother and sister rarely get together, I quess they don't get along. They all live in Oregon, too. Very sad. Nothing's wotth it, nothing.
LOve, Cathy

Greg Dymerski said...

Cathy, it sounds like you will be busy. If you still have the dachshunds, put them to work to keep everyone in control! Keep us in your prayers as we try to drive to Utah next week. (I refuse to buy studded snow tires)

Greg

Cathy Curths said...

The wieners will be here with Alicia and Sean, they take them every where they go. I hope you have chains, safe travels!
Love, Cathy

Cathy Curths said...

Sadie looks like she's enjoying being out there, good for her!

robinhood said...

:-) and prayers

Hank

Anonymous said...

Nice post and lovely picture of Yvonne! Enjoy the time with Andrew. And safe travels. I will miss seeing you all.

love,
Mary D.

Anonymous said...

Greg, Yvonne, bring something warm with you. Looks like it should clear up before you leave Logan. Love Dad and Alice

Greg Dymerski said...

Hey all! I forgot to mention that my 6 month bone marrow aspiration results came in Thursday with no cancer blasts in the mix. So I am still in remission. There is always some down with the up though- now I have a cough/cold and a fever. I hope to break it today, I am pretty sure it is viral so anti-biotics won't help. :) Greg

Cathy Curths said...

I'm glad you are in reemission, great news! I hope your bug passes quickly.it's that time of the year!
Love, Cathy

Greg Dymerski said...

I am doing a lot better, cold is almost gone. Can you believe we get snow this early? Andrew is snowboarding at Crystal Mtn. this morning.

Cathy Curths said...

Wow you got snow, Sadies having fun!

KKW said...

Oh Greggers, you are SUCH an INSPIRATION to all of us earthlings!!! Your blog is wonderful, very appropriate,loving, open, sensitive and honest... such a breath of "fresh air"!!! Haven't reviewed your writings in over a week (you've been somewhat "absent" these past few weeks!), but am ALWAYS so delightfully astonished by your thoughts/feelings!!! Wish we could "clone" you many times over!!! YOU and Yvonne are DEFINITELY NEEDED in our community---beyond words! Halleleuah that so far you are still cancer free!!! Let's keep it up! Along, of course, with everything else!!!
P.S. There are over 12 inches of new really fluffy snow here (temps below zero at the moment!!!), but it's FINE for driving since we DON'T have so many idiot drivers here in Okanogan County!! Haha! Keep on keepin' on! Hugs to you both!
KKW

Greg Dymerski said...

Happy Thanksgiving! I am thankful for all of the comments and support received on the blog/comments page. I am also thankful (in no particular order) for God's healing powers, Yvonne and my family, my dog, a "White Thanksgiving," my Donor, my friends, my Country, and last but not least my caring health care providers from St. Joseph's Hospital and Seattle Cancer Care Alliance. Love, Greg

Cathy Curths said...

Happy Thanksgiving!
Love, Cathy

Anonymous said...

GReg, Yvonne, Happy Thanksgiving, Love Dad and Alice

Cathy Curths said...

It's been a weird holiday tins hear. People coming then not, now we are down to five, as Warren is sick and so is Les's cousin. Some tongs are just not meant to be, I guess. At least Alicia, Sean and the weenies, and Ryan of course!

robinhood said...

Lord Bless and Keep You and Yours this Holiday Season

Greg Dymerski said...

Thanks Hank, I hope all of your prayers are answered. You deserve the best this Christmas season.
Greg

Anonymous said...

Greg,
Sorry you guys didn't make it down to Logan but I was worried, I know that drive can be REALLY frightening with bad weather. Hope you still had a nice Thanksgiving. I had a very quiet one here.
That is fabulous news about your latest cancer test!! I am so happy for you. I hope you continue to get stronger and better. Do you still have snow? We got almost a foot yesterday. Very wintery here now.
Keep the faith! Always thinking of you guys!
love,
Mary D.